Can I bring objects to decorate my pet’s grave? Can I bring objects to decorate my pet’s grave? September 1, 2015 Erika Peterson We allow some decorations, but they must be approved by us to assure that they are not unsuitable in any way. As we like to keep the cemetery as peaceful and natural as possible, we do not approve of solar lights. Newer Can I get any ashes back if I have my pet communally cremated? Older If I privately bury my pet, do I have to buy a headstone?